• Steve Berlack

The Danger Of Losing Our Connection

I once read a disturbing article in the New York Daily News

about seven teenage bullies attacking a 13 year old boy in Pennsylvania.

The included video brought home the sheer brutality of the attack.

See the original article here. https://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/teens-arrested-posting-youtube-video-beating-13-year-old-boy-hanging-tree-article-1.137868?barcprox=true

As I watched the video, I couldn’t help but wonder what would make kids

be so cruel to one another. I mean, teasing another kid is one thing. We’ve

all done that. But hanging another kid from a tree? And hanging him by

his jacket from a fence? And dragging him through the snow, punching

and kicking him along the way?

Then it struck me. That level of cruelty can only exist when we’ve completely

forgotten our connections to one another. This happens when we don’t

understand that what we do has an impact not only on the person we’re

doing it to, but on a host of others connected by a web of relationships.

Did those kids think about the impact they were having on this boy?

His future interactions with others? (It’s amazing, isn’t it, how negative

behaviors continue to manifest in future relationships. Raise your hand

if you know what I’m talking about). Did they think about his mother,

or the rest of his family, and how this impacts them? As a father, I can’t

imagine what I would have done had I seen a gang of kids doing that to

one of my daughters. But I can tell you here and now that it would have

gotten ugly. (You just don’t attack a parent’s children like that and expect

to get away with it).

That thought brings me back to parents. What are the parents of these kids

teaching them? Perhaps they’re doing all they can to teach them the right

things about love, honor and respect for one another. But as parents, do

they not know that the lessons aren’t taking hold? Or, worse yet, are they

teaching them this kind of hatred?

I wrote this to remind everyone that not knowing our connections to and

responsibilities for one another is inherently dangerous. It brings about

our most base nature, and leads us away from the American promise of

life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. Parents stand up!! We’ve got to

do better than this.

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